Work with me
If your relationship is not giving you what you need right now, it can be hard to know where to start.
I work with couples and individuals on connection, communication, intimacy and trust. I also support people navigating breakups, co-parenting and difficult ex-partner dynamics.
Get Started: Book a free 15 minute call (required for new clients)
We check fit, suitability and timing. If we decide to work together, I will recommend the best next step and send the payment link.
Coaching Sessions
For couples and individuals who want practical support and steady progress.
This can be about improving connection, communication, intimacy, or trust in a current relationship. It can also be about navigating the relational spillover of a breakup, co-parenting, or an ongoing ex partner dynamic.
Investment Individual coaching:
£85 for 60 minutes
Multi session option (booked together): 4 sessions for £320
Couples sessions sometimes need 90 minutes. If so, they are charged pro-rata and agreed in advance.
Relationship Clarity Report
A structured clarity process for when you do not want months of talking before you know what matters.
If things feel confusing, repetitive, or emotionally loaded, this process is designed to replace fog with a clear map of what is happening and what to do next. For couples, it creates a shared, workable picture and a plan you can act on. For individuals, it can be a way to understand the pattern you are in, including after a rupture or breakup, and choose your next step with more confidence.
Investment Options - Clarity Reports
Clarity Snapshot
For fast clarity and direction.
Includes:
Private questionnaire
One 90 minute session, individual or couple
Short written summary with clear next steps you can start immediately
£450
Clarity Report (most popular)
The full clarity process with a personalised written report.
Includes:
Private questionnaire for each partner
Two individual interviews, 60 minutes each
One joint session, 90 minutes
Written Relationship Clarity Report with step by step actions and practical scripts
A 40 minute session to talk through the report and answer questions
Assisted questionnaire completion if forms are difficult
£950
Clarity Report plus Support
For couples who want clarity plus support implementing changes quickly.
Includes everything in Clarity Report, plus:
One additional coaching session, up to 90 minutes
14 days of bounded email or text support for implementation questions
£1,250
What will we get from the Relationship Clarity Process?
You will receive a personalised Relationship Clarity Report that includes:
The core pattern driving disconnection or conflict, and how to interrupt it
The strengths worth protecting, and how to protect them
What matters most to each of you and actions to achieve that
The key priorities most likely to create change
Step by step actions and practical scripts you can use immediately
A recommendation for the most effective next step for your situation
I combine evidence informed relationship research with decades of coaching experience and behaviour change expertise to make complex dynamics clearer and more workable.
This process can work when other counselling has not
Traditional counselling can be valuable. This is simply a different container. The Relationship Clarity process is:
Structured and time-bound
Practical and forward-focused
Designed to reduce confusion quickly
Built to create clear next steps, rather than open-ended processing
How the process works
How the process works
Free 15 minute call
Payment link, then private written questions
Sessions, individual then together where included
Your written Clarity Report
Report walkthrough and next steps
To protect quality, I only take a maximum of six Relationship Clarity Reports per month.
Is a Relationship Clarity Report right for you?
When a relationship is not giving you what you need, it can leave you stuck in a difficult place. Not bad enough to leave, not good enough to feel happy. Or bad enough to consider leaving, but complicated by shared history, children, finances, or simply not wanting to blow up your life without being sure.
Relationship stress rarely stays contained. It affects wellbeing, focus, confidence, and the overall quality of day to day life.
Many people hesitate to seek help because they do not want to commit to months of talking without knowing what will come out of it. The Relationship Clarity process is designed to be different. It gives both people the space to be heard properly, then turns what I learn into a clear relationship map and practical next steps, informed by up to date relational science and decades of coaching experience.
Every situation is unique. Sometimes the report and next steps are enough to create a meaningful shift on their own. Sometimes the report becomes the foundation for deeper coaching work, with me or with another specialist. Sometimes a respectful ending is part of the conversation. The next steps are always your choice.
You might recognise one or more of these
You are drifting into parallel lives and cannot get back to “us”
You keep having the same arguments and nothing changes
Intimacy has gone quiet, tense, or transactional
Home feels like a place where you “can’t do anything right”
Trust has been shaken and you do not know what is repairable
You are in the grey zone: love them, not in love with them
You feel it should be better than this and you want more
You find yourself comparing your relationship to others, or getting some needs met outside the relationship
You are asking a question you almost do not want to say out loud: are we okay, is this it, should we keep going?
Reaching out for help can feel exposing. It can also be one of the most practical decisions you make, given the emotional, financial, and logistical cost of letting things drift. This process is designed to give you clarity and put you back in control.
Important notes
Openness and honesty
The quality of the report depends on openness and honesty from all the people. If key information is withheld, the outputs will be compromised.
Confidentiality
Your questionnaire responses and individual interviews are confidential and used to build an accurate picture. I do not share one partner’s private disclosures word for word with the other. I synthesise themes and patterns in a way that supports progress and emotional safety.
If something important emerges that one person does not want shared, we will handle it carefully. I will encourage transparency and support you to disclose what is needed in a safe way. If a situation makes it impossible to proceed with integrity, I will say so.
Suitability
This work is not suitable where there is intimate partner violence, or ongoing untreated addictions to alcohol or substances. If you are unsure, book the free call and we will discuss the safest next step.
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